Milestones by Age, 2 Months to 3 Years: What's Typical, When to Check In
What most children do by each age from 2 months to 3 years, and when to check in.
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- Each age lists what about 3 in 4 children do by then; use corrected age for preemies until about 2.
- Being a little behind on one item is common. Tell the doctor if your child misses several or you're worried.
- Losing skills they once had, at any age, needs a prompt check. Screening happens at 9, 18 and 30 months.
| Age | Feelings and people | Talking and understanding | Learning and thinking | Moving |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| By 2 months | Calms when held; looks at your face; smiles back | Makes sounds besides crying; reacts to loud sounds | Watches you as you move | Holds head up on tummy; moves arms and legs |
| By 4 months | Smiles to get your attention; chuckles | Coos; makes sounds back when you talk | Looks at their hands; opens mouth for breast or bottle | Holds head steady; holds a toy; pushes up on elbows |
| By 6 months | Knows familiar people; laughs | Takes turns making sounds; blows raspberries; squeals | Puts things in mouth; reaches for toys | Rolls tummy to back; pushes up on straight arms |
| By 9 months | May be shy or clingy with strangers; reacts when you leave | Babbles "mamama", "bababa"; lifts arms to be picked up | Looks for a dropped toy; bangs two things together | Sits without support; moves things hand to hand |
| By 12 months | Plays pat-a-cake; waves bye-bye | Calls a parent "mama" or "dada"; understands "no" | Puts things in a container; finds a hidden toy | Pulls to stand; walks holding furniture; thumb-finger pick-up |
| By 15 months | Copies other children; shows you a favorite toy; claps | Tries one or two words besides "mama"/"dada"; points to ask | Uses things the right way (cup, phone); stacks two objects | Takes a few steps alone; finger-feeds |
| By 18 months | Moves away but checks you're close; points to show you things | Tries three or more words; follows one-step directions | Copies you doing chores; pushes a toy car | Walks alone; scribbles; climbs on and off a couch |
| By 2 years | Notices when others are upset; looks to you in new situations | Puts two words together; points to body parts and pictures | Plays with more than one toy at a time | Kicks a ball; runs; walks up a few stairs; uses a spoon |
| By 30 months | Plays beside and with other children; "Look at me!" | About 50 words; two-word phrases with an action word; follows two steps | Pretend play; simple problem solving; knows one color | Jumps with both feet; twists lids; takes off some clothes |
| By 3 years | Settles within about 10 minutes after you leave; joins others to play | Back-and-forth conversation; "why" questions; mostly understood by others | Draws a circle when shown; avoids hot things when warned | Strings beads; puts on some clothes; uses a fork |
Things most children (about 3 in 4) do by each age, from CDC's 2022 checklists. Children vary. Talk to the doctor if your child misses milestones or loses a skill they had.
How to read this
Each age lists things most children (about 3 in 4) can do by then. Children get there at their own pace, and being a little behind on one item is common. The lists are a way to notice and to talk with your child's doctor, not a test. If your baby was born early, use the age from their due date until about age 2.
By 2 months
- Calms when spoken to or picked up; looks at your face; smiles when you talk or smile.
- Makes sounds other than crying; reacts to loud sounds.
- Holds head up during tummy time; moves both arms and both legs; opens hands briefly.
By 4 months
- Smiles on their own to get your attention; chuckles when you try to make them laugh.
- Coos ("oooo", "aahh") and makes sounds back when you talk; turns toward your voice.
- Holds head steady when held; holds a toy put in their hand; brings hands to mouth; pushes up on elbows during tummy time.
By 6 months
- Knows familiar people; laughs; likes looking at themself in a mirror.
- Takes turns making sounds with you; blows raspberries; squeals.
- Reaches to grab a toy; rolls from tummy to back; pushes up on straight arms; leans on hands when sitting.
By 9 months
- May be shy, clingy or fearful with strangers; reacts when you leave; looks when you call their name.
- Babbles strings like "mamamama" and "babababa"; lifts arms to be picked up.
- Looks for a toy dropped out of sight; bangs two things together; sits without support and gets into sitting on their own.
By 12 months
- Plays games like pat-a-cake; waves bye-bye; understands "no".
- Calls a parent "mama", "dada" or another special name.
- Pulls up to stand; walks holding on to furniture; picks up small things between thumb and pointer finger.
By 15 months
- Copies other children; shows you a toy they like; claps when excited; shows affection.
- Tries to say one or two words besides "mama" or "dada"; points to ask for something.
- Takes a few steps alone; stacks two small objects; feeds themself with fingers.
By 18 months
- Moves away from you but checks that you're close; points to show you something interesting.
- Tries to say three or more words besides "mama" or "dada"; follows one-step directions without gestures ("Give it to me").
- Walks without holding on; scribbles; climbs on and off a couch; tries to use a spoon.
By 2 years
- Notices when others are hurt or upset; looks at your face to see how to react to something new.
- Says at least two words together ("more milk"); points to at least two body parts and to pictures in a book when asked.
- Kicks a ball; runs; walks up a few stairs; eats with a spoon.
By 30 months
- Plays next to and sometimes with other children; shows you what they can do ("Look at me!").
- Says about 50 words, and two or more words together with an action word ("doggie run"); uses "I", "me" and "we"; follows two-step instructions.
- Pretends (feeding a block to a doll); jumps with both feet; twists lids and doorknobs.
By 3 years
- Calms down within about 10 minutes after you leave, for example at childcare drop-off; joins other children to play.
- Has back-and-forth conversations; asks "who", "what", "where" or "why"; says their first name; talks well enough for others to understand most of the time.
- Draws a circle when shown how; puts on some clothes; uses a fork.
When to check in
- Tell your child's doctor if your child is missing milestones for their age, or if you're worried, even if the checklist looks fine. You know your child best.
- Talk to the doctor soon if your child loses skills they once had, at any age.
- The AAP recommends developmental screening at the 9, 18 and 30 month checkups, and autism screening at 18 and 24 months. You can ask for one sooner.
- In the US, children under 3 can get a free evaluation from the state's Early Intervention program. You don't need a doctor's referral to call.
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Grounded in: CDC "Learn the Signs. Act Early." milestone checklists (2022 revision, developed with the AAP) and AAP developmental screening guidance.
General information, not medical advice. If something feels wrong, trust that and call your pediatrician or provider. See Sources.
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